a true story about daily transitions
Who Was Winning?
Coat on, keys out, and she's flat on the tile with two dinosaurs mid-war.
the realization
I couldn't drag her out of the war, so I got down and joined it. The second I stopped rushing her and got curious about what she was doing, the fight in her just went quiet.
Coat on, keys already in my hand, and there she is, flat on the tile. Two dinosaurs locked together, mid-battle, roaring. We were late. I said the dinosaurs will wait, we have to go, come on. She didn't even look up.
have you ever felt this way too?
So I said it louder. Faster. Grabbed for her arm, one shoe, the door. And the faster I moved, the louder she got. I stood over her going come-on come-on and she just cranked the volume, both dinosaurs screaming now, me screaming a little too. Nobody was winning that one.
So I stopped. I don't really know why. I got down on the floor with her, right into the middle of it, and I asked her who was winning. She looked at me like finally, somebody's paying attention. T-rex, barely. He had the other one pinned.
Okay, I said. T-rex won, so he rides in the bag. One more roar for the road. She gave him a big one, got up still roaring, and walked out the door with the whole war still going in her fist.
what I found myself saying
"Who's winning?"
"Okay, T-rex won, so he rides in the bag."
"One more roar, then we go."